Once, I saw a disembodied had cross a road in the dead of night. And once, I ejacufarted into my wife’s eye. Let’s travel back 23 years ago. I was 14 and had just learned about doing self checks of my testicles for lumps. And, lo-and-behold, I found one. I was pretty worried, told my parents, and eventually went to a urologist.I profoundly regret my actions that led to the ruination of my son’s life. Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life . Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a story of regret, guilt, and heartache, as well as redemption. It is an inspiring tale of one fathers journey to atone for the mistakes he made which eventually led to his sons downfall.My niece (who we'll call L), and my nephew (who we'll call W) don't have many games on their PSN account, so being the cool stupid uncle I am, I game them access to my PSN account, to play my far superior collection of games.All was well for about a month. I knew they couldn't buy games on the account because all payments require a card ...My heart started to race, and my heart felt horrible for my sister, I didn’t want to do this, but I couldn’t live without knowing my sister is staying with him. When BIL went for a drink, I pulled her over to a corner and told her everything, my sister was nonchalant at first, but then she ran off crying to my parents. His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know. His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know. TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life. My son has been in college since last fall. Last November, my 16 year old stepdaughter brought up allegations that my son had abused her repeatedly for several years. I confronted my son and he categorically denied it. But I knew that even though he was my son, I could not defend him for such an awful act. Memes that everyone can relate tohttps://youtu.be/oi2NPP3uOEA--~--Share your own stories in the comments section below! ️Watch more r/AskReddit stories: htt... tifu by ruining my son's first word Literally happened earlier today. My son is a toddler, about 16 months old. He's developmentally on track, but I've been champing at the bit for him to start using words. He can do Mama and Dada and that's about it. So here's where I ruined it.My heart started to race, and my heart felt horrible for my sister, I didn’t want to do this, but I couldn’t live without knowing my sister is staying with him. When BIL went for a drink, I pulled her over to a corner and told her everything, my sister was nonchalant at first, but then she ran off crying to my parents. She told my fiancée/her sister about it today. She is rightfully and fully justifiably upset with me. I feel horrible. I can’t believe I did what I did today. I feel so sick and upset with myself. TL;DR I fucked up by admitting to my fiancées twin sister that I liked her in the past and it was not good and I’m an idiot. I felt and still feel absolutely terrible. I really do believe that Santa is part of the magic of Christmas for most children and normally actively try to avoid potentially ruining it for other kids. I totally grinched that family's Christmas moment. TL;DR I know he is on Remit very often. T. if you are reading, I want to tell you again how sorry your stepmom and I are. I promise I will get. you into college again. I know I can' t get you back the year you lost. But I will do everything In my power to make this right. Everything I. have has always been for you.TIFU by walking in my sons room without knocking. TIFU by going to tell my (14m) child goodnight. (This actually happened a few weeks ago but I am now strong enthusiastic to tell the tale). Everyone else was asleep and I wanted to pop in and tell my oldest goodnight before bed. I opened the door and instantly made eye contact.I regretfully acknowledge that my assistance inadvertently caused irreparable damage to my son’s life. tifu by helping ruin my sons life . TIFU by Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a heartbreaking story of a father’s struggle to repair the damage done to his son after he thoughtlessly intervenes in the boy’s life.Memes that everyone can relate tohttps://youtu.be/oi2NPP3uOEA--~--Share your own stories in the comments section below! ️Watch more r/AskReddit stories: htt...TIFU by ruining my life for 3 years. I (14m) lived normal life sense 2011 until the war in my country happened it was a suffer but i survived and went to another country 2011-2015 (the saga of new life) i didn't know anything about the country and i was lost but my parents helped me know life and get friends and i thank them for this i went to ...TIFU by ruining my sleep for four months by not checking a label. Where I live has been plagued by heatwaves for months. I've also been under a lot of stress by moving house and getting a new job in the same year. All in all, I've been about as organised as a chocolate teapot in an oven (which coincidentally is what I've also felt like at night).Apparently my mom's vagina falls under advanced sign language skills and therefore will not be addressed at all. Speaking of my mom, she's been keeping her sign language relatively safe-for-son since my interest in learning sign language went public. However, this morning I did catch her complimenting new guy's butt in sign language.tifu by ruining my son's first word (r/tifu)Source: Whoopsmansnothot on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for linking to a "site with nud...TIFU by walking in my sons room without knocking. TIFU by going to tell my (14m) child goodnight. (This actually happened a few weeks ago but I am now strong enthusiastic to tell the tale). Everyone else was asleep and I wanted to pop in and tell my oldest goodnight before bed. I opened the door and instantly made eye contact.my surprise birthday. My mouth dropped and I quietly walked backwards to the door, exiting quietly and waiting till 7:30 to come back home. My wife would be so sad and she was workin so hard😅. So within to time frame of about 3 and a half hours, I practiced my “oh my god I’m so suprised face” When I came home she yelled “surprise!!” More like last night, but the consequences are showing through today. I was in the car with my friend to go to our other friends house and I had a lighter and her old vape with me. I dropped them so I asked her to put them in my bag....she put them in hers. We both forgot/didnt realize and I left without grabbing them to take home with me. Apparently my mom's vagina falls under advanced sign language skills and therefore will not be addressed at all. Speaking of my mom, she's been keeping her sign language relatively safe-for-son since my interest in learning sign language went public. However, this morning I did catch her complimenting new guy's butt in sign language.Memes that everyone can relate tohttps://youtu.be/oi2NPP3uOEA--~--Share your own stories in the comments section below! ️Watch more r/AskReddit stories: htt... The Recap: Original post. The new man in my mom's life is Deaf. My mom really likes him and so do I. It's safe to say they're in the honeymoon phase of their relationship, and as the teenage son of a single mom who's now madly in love, it's both great and gross at the same time. Well the tickets arent refundable and we paid $145.00 for them. I now feel like I ruined our anniversary by worrying too much about how my dad will feel with our baby, and I also now feel bad for my boyfriend because we wont have the whole fun day we had originally planned. TL;DR: TIFU by having to cancel non refundable anniversary plans due to ...Your biggest mistake was allowing your son to think his height is something to be ashamed of, not fostering resiliency, or a healthy dose of humor to approach life with. If he thinks his life is ruined because he's short, his shortness didn't ruin his life. . . .his attitude and your failures as parents did. 21.TIFU by possibly ruining my English teacher's son's childhood. Close. 1. Posted by 7 years ago. TIFU by possibly ruining my English teacher's son's childhood ... His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know.I profoundly regret my actions that led to the ruination of my son’s life. Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life . Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a story of regret, guilt, and heartache, as well as redemption. It is an inspiring tale of one fathers journey to atone for the mistakes he made which eventually led to his sons downfall.my surprise birthday. My mouth dropped and I quietly walked backwards to the door, exiting quietly and waiting till 7:30 to come back home. My wife would be so sad and she was workin so hard😅. So within to time frame of about 3 and a half hours, I practiced my “oh my god I’m so suprised face” When I came home she yelled “surprise!!”TIFU by accidentally ruining my PC’s OS. Hey, I’m currently in the process of rescuing all the files I can off of my PC. By the looks of it, it’s going to take some time. The way this all happened was me trying out a live usb of Lakka, a emulation OS, I was just adding some files and noticed some big folders which had the name of my ... Memes that everyone can relate tohttps://youtu.be/oi2NPP3uOEA--~--Share your own stories in the comments section below! ️Watch more r/AskReddit stories: htt... TIFU by ruining my brother’s friendship with his best friend. So, my brother has been best friends with this guy for like 9 years. we’re all in college now. anyway, when i went off to college, i unknowingly went to the same college as his best friend. i didn’t know this because despite their forever friendship me and said best friend have ... TIFU by telling my son I used to date Koo Koo Kanga Roo's brother. So my (34F) oldest kid (6M) is a big fan of the children's musical group/duo Koo Koo Kanga Roo. He discovered them about 2 years ago when his teacher played one of their songs in class, and his friends started playing their music and YouTube videos all the time. TIFU by showing my son how smart I am. This happened last weekend at a family expo thing we had going on in town. The expo was pretty big where you would walk around with your family, stopping at different booths where they would have fun things for the kids to do and give you free junk/coupons. tifu by ruining my son's first word Literally happened earlier today. My son is a toddler, about 16 months old. He's developmentally on track, but I've been champing at the bit for him to start using words. He can do Mama and Dada and that's about it. So here's where I ruined it.His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know. TIFU by Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a heartbreaking story of a father’s struggle to repair the damage done to his son after he thoughtlessly intervenes in the boy’s life. The father, believing that he knows what’s best for his son, makes decisions that ultimately rip the family apart and have severe repercussions on the sons future. TIFU by ruining my sleep for four months by not checking a label. Where I live has been plagued by heatwaves for months. I've also been under a lot of stress by moving house and getting a new job in the same year. All in all, I've been about as organised as a chocolate teapot in an oven (which coincidentally is what I've also felt like at night).People gave him bites of their burgers, and I remembered a story my dear grandma used to tell me called The Widow's Son, which is basically about this boy that doesn't have any chocolate, but manages to emotionally trick all the other children to give him pieces of their chocolates, ending up with the most chocolate.Get a goddamn grip, look at yourself in the mirror, look at what's happening around you, stop having your head up your ass for ONE second, and apologize to your son, and see if you can recover his world. You didn't just destroy his Minecraft world. You destroyed his world. 145.One of my friends told me she couldn’t support me anymore, blocked me and then began supporting my ex and telling her all the things in our relationship I confided in her. The other one told me he couldn’t trust me anymore and distanced himself. Then finally my boss let me go and told me he couldn’t have these rumours attached to his ... TIFU by improperly storing tree sap and ruining my kid's syrup dream for 2020. S. Happened nine days ago, I'm still bummed. This could also be a TIL, because TIL how TIFU. TL:DR at bottom. Last year my son and I collected 10 gallons of maple tree sap. We spent an entire Saturday boiling it down with a mishmash of disposable pans, barbecue ... I love my uncle to death he's like a second father to me and is my best friend. The other week we were splitting wood and after we were done he showed me a fancy axe he had (chopper1). He was so proud of it and excited to show me it cut through logs like butter, but long story short he was telling me about how he thinks he they don't make them ...TIFU by ruining my brother’s friendship with his best friend. So, my brother has been best friends with this guy for like 9 years. we’re all in college now. anyway, when i went off to college, i unknowingly went to the same college as his best friend. i didn’t know this because despite their forever friendship me and said best friend have ... For a little background, I am the second Eldest of 4 and live with my partner, don’t drive, and have always been the partier of my family, I like to go on nights out and this is a well-known fact; However, due to a number of reasons, I haven't been able to go on a proper night out in a while the last time I tried I went with my younger sister ...tifu by ruining my son's first word (r/tifu)Source: Whoopsmansnothot on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for linking to a "site with nud...My son goes to bed around 7PM. Afterwards I turn on the TV. Grab my snacks and watch my 600lb life. I'm currently bingeing it. My son came out from bed and saw it on tv and asked about it. I paused it and explained how it is a show about people who are sick and trying to get healthier. Fast forward to today. I'm taking my son to the doctor. TIFU by ruining my sleep for four months by not checking a label. Where I live has been plagued by heatwaves for months. I've also been under a lot of stress by moving house and getting a new job in the same year. All in all, I've been about as organised as a chocolate teapot in an oven (which coincidentally is what I've also felt like at night). Happened last night and its eating me up! I have to tell someone or I'm gonna ruin xmas for my kid by letting it slip somehow. My son went to his friends house for the night, the hubby, my other kid, and I putzed around the house doin stuff, watched a movie, cleanin...that sorta thing.One of my friends told me she couldn’t support me anymore, blocked me and then began supporting my ex and telling her all the things in our relationship I confided in her. The other one told me he couldn’t trust me anymore and distanced himself. Then finally my boss let me go and told me he couldn’t have these rumours attached to his ...8 yr. ago by bawron TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life My son has been in college since last fall. Last November, my 16 year old stepdaughter brought up allegations that my son had abused her repeatedly for several years. I confronted my son and he categorically denied it.I profoundly regret my actions that led to the ruination of my son’s life. Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life . Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a story of regret, guilt, and heartache, as well as redemption. It is an inspiring tale of one fathers journey to atone for the mistakes he made which eventually led to his sons downfall.TIFU by ruining my car then bank account. TIFU by I took a job to AZ for the summer. My car was in the shop so I took my dads car. I’m an alcoholic and had a good start to the summer, made money, had fun. Then, I had an off day all alone, got depressed, drank, drove my dads car into a ditch, popped 2 tires and a hole in the oil pan. My son goes to bed around 7PM. Afterwards I turn on the TV. Grab my snacks and watch my 600lb life. I'm currently bingeing it. My son came out from bed and saw it on tv and asked about it. I paused it and explained how it is a show about people who are sick and trying to get healthier. Fast forward to today. I'm taking my son to the doctor. The first, was writing a utopic/dystopic book. The second, was travelling the world and helping the poor and homeless. I had been dating my wife for four years by then. Young love. She loved my spontaneity, my energy, my ability to make people laugh and feel loved. I knew my book was going to change the world. I (22F) don't even really know how to start this. I know it's my fault despite multiple people telling me it's not. But I can't help how shitty I feel. I ruined my boyfriend's (25m) holiday. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, and we don't live together (we both still live at home and have plans to move in together in ...Happened last night and its eating me up! I have to tell someone or I'm gonna ruin xmas for my kid by letting it slip somehow. My son went to his friends house for the night, the hubby, my other kid, and I putzed around the house doin stuff, watched a movie, cleanin...that sorta thing.TIFU by showing my son how smart I am. This happened last weekend at a family expo thing we had going on in town. The expo was pretty big where you would walk around with your family, stopping at different booths where they would have fun things for the kids to do and give you free junk/coupons. My son goes to bed around 7PM. Afterwards I turn on the TV. Grab my snacks and watch my 600lb life. I'm currently bingeing it. My son came out from bed and saw it on tv and asked about it. I paused it and explained how it is a show about people who are sick and trying to get healthier. Fast forward to today. I'm taking my son to the doctor.Business, Economics, and Finance. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. CryptoTIFU by improperly storing tree sap and ruining my kid's syrup dream for 2020. S. Happened nine days ago, I'm still bummed. This could also be a TIL, because TIL how TIFU. TL:DR at bottom. Last year my son and I collected 10 gallons of maple tree sap. We spent an entire Saturday boiling it down with a mishmash of disposable pans, barbecue ... TIFU by ruining my family because of the drug addiction. (Backstory) I (M33) had been clean for about 9 years. Drugs were left behind and I had normal life — a wife (Jane, 32), a son (5), a good job, a place to live in. But a year ago we had an argument with my wife.tifu by ruining my son's first word (r/tifu)Source: Whoopsmansnothot on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for linking to a "site with nud...TIFU by accidentally ruining my PC’s OS. Hey, I’m currently in the process of rescuing all the files I can off of my PC. By the looks of it, it’s going to take some time. The way this all happened was me trying out a live usb of Lakka, a emulation OS, I was just adding some files and noticed some big folders which had the name of my ...I love my uncle to death he's like a second father to me and is my best friend. The other week we were splitting wood and after we were done he showed me a fancy axe he had (chopper1). He was so proud of it and excited to show me it cut through logs like butter, but long story short he was telling me about how he thinks he they don't make them ...TIFU by telling my son I used to date Koo Koo Kanga Roo's brother. So my (34F) oldest kid (6M) is a big fan of the children's musical group/duo Koo Koo Kanga Roo. He discovered them about 2 years ago when his teacher played one of their songs in class, and his friends started playing their music and YouTube videos all the time. TIFU by telling my son I used to date Koo Koo Kanga Roo's brother. So my (34F) oldest kid (6M) is a big fan of the children's musical group/duo Koo Koo Kanga Roo. He discovered them about 2 years ago when his teacher played one of their songs in class, and his friends started playing their music and YouTube videos all the time. 101 votes, 27 comments. So, This happened exactly on this week (25/06/2017), also, pardon me for any English problems you might find, since English…TIFU ruining my arm for damn french fries This is a TIFU today and also every day for the last 2.5 weeks. It’s an ongoing battle I lose with my arm to the french fry disaster of ‘22 and every day the devil is doing his work in the trenches to show me there are indeed levels to hell whenever I think I’ve reached the bottom.I felt and still feel absolutely terrible. I really do believe that Santa is part of the magic of Christmas for most children and normally actively try to avoid potentially ruining it for other kids. I totally grinched that family's Christmas moment. TL;DR TIFU by walking in my sons room without knocking. TIFU by going to tell my (14m) child goodnight. (This actually happened a few weeks ago but I am now strong enthusiastic to tell the tale). Everyone else was asleep and I wanted to pop in and tell my oldest goodnight before bed. I opened the door and instantly made eye contact.Tifu by Helping Ruined Son’s Life is an inspiring story about a young man who has been through many hardships but finds a way to still make a difference. The story starts as the protagonist, Tyler, discovers his son in trouble. Despite his father’s tough and heartless reputation, Tyler has always remained kind and generous when it came to ...My niece (who we'll call L), and my nephew (who we'll call W) don't have many games on their PSN account, so being the cool stupid uncle I am, I game them access to my PSN account, to play my far superior collection of games.All was well for about a month. I knew they couldn't buy games on the account because all payments require a card ... Jul 28, 2023 · I profoundly regret my actions that led to the ruination of my son’s life. Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life . Tifu By Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a story of regret, guilt, and heartache, as well as redemption. It is an inspiring tale of one fathers journey to atone for the mistakes he made which eventually led to his sons downfall. TIFU by ruining my friends wedding proposal. It was supposed to be a beautiful and romantic moment. My best friend had planned everything to a tee: he had reserved a fancy restaurant, ordered a bottle of the finest champagne, and even got a live violinist to play their favorite song. He was going to propose to his girlfriend and make her the ...Father Ruining His Son’s Life After Believing His Stepdaughter LieNov 7, 2014 · TIFU my whole life. My regrets as a 46 year old, and advice to others at a crossroad. TIFU. More like more whole life really. ... My son feels nothing for me. I realised I missed my father's ... TIFU by pretending to “shoot myself” to a coworker whose son committed suicide by shooting himself r/tifu • TIFU by accidentally sending 100s of Stickers on Whatsapp to an old classmate.TIFU is usually full of shit, but for some reason, I can picture this actually happening. 2. The shocking lack of criminalization of the daughter, whose sleeping around and ruining her brother's life in the comments just confirms what we already believe.tifu by ruining my son's first word. Literally happened earlier today. My son is a toddler, about 16 months old. He's developmentally on track, but I've been champing at the bit for him to start using words. He can do Mama and Dada and that's about it. So here's where I ruined it. TIFU is usually full of shit, but for some reason, I can picture this actually happening. 2. The shocking lack of criminalization of the daughter, whose sleeping around and ruining her brother's life in the comments just confirms what we already believe.82 votes, 22 comments. My girlfriend and me were toghether on Omegle, trying to trick some people. The trick was simple, I put a tiara on my head … TIFU when I went to IKEA with my girlfriend for a bookcase and some outside chairs, and suddenly, I need to go. My girlfriend says "well please wait until we scan these at the checkout, I can't lift the furniture by myself. " I decide to wait to help her, but when we get in line we notice it is pretty long. Still I decide to wait with her.His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know. If she's willing to do something like this to family, it seems pretty likely she might do it again and ruin someone else's life. As for the son, this is just devastating and I feel for him. He owes his father and stepmother absolutely nothing. Not forgiveness, not love, not going out of his way to assuage their guilt.I regretfully acknowledge that my assistance inadvertently caused irreparable damage to my son’s life. tifu by helping ruin my sons life . TIFU by Helping Ruin My Sons Life is a heartbreaking story of a father’s struggle to repair the damage done to his son after he thoughtlessly intervenes in the boy’s life.TIFU by possibly ruining my English teacher's son's childhood. Close. 1. Posted by 7 years ago. TIFU by possibly ruining my English teacher's son's childhood ...
861 votes, 74 comments. Obligatory this happened a few years ago back in the winter of 2016. My wife was about 6 months pregnant with our son and we…. Hold up wait a minute it
People gave him bites of their burgers, and I remembered a story my dear grandma used to tell me called The Widow's Son, which is basically about this boy that doesn't have any chocolate, but manages to emotionally trick all the other children to give him pieces of their chocolates, ending up with the most chocolate.I know he is on Remit very often. T. if you are reading, I want to tell you again how sorry your stepmom and I are. I promise I will get. you into college again. I know I can' t get you back the year you lost. But I will do everything In my power to make this right. Everything I. have has always been for you.His mother’s face, dear Jesus almighty, if you could have only seen his mother’s face. Even now it just makes my heart ache with pain recalling that morbid, terrified, eyes peeled back like she just saw her son get ran over!!! After blabbering out what I just said, it quickly struck me like a cement truck that his parents didn’t know. TIFU by ruining my sister’s wedding dress. S. I (16f) had a small gathering of 10 people over at my house last night while my sister was out the whole day. (She’s 24; foster kinship.) Someone brought alcohol, things got kind of out of control, and one of my highly intoxicated friends put on my sister’s wedding dress. my surprise birthday. My mouth dropped and I quietly walked backwards to the door, exiting quietly and waiting till 7:30 to come back home. My wife would be so sad and she was workin so hard😅. So within to time frame of about 3 and a half hours, I practiced my “oh my god I’m so suprised face” When I came home she yelled “surprise!!”TIFU ruining my arm for damn french fries This is a TIFU today and also every day for the last 2.5 weeks. It’s an ongoing battle I lose with my arm to the french fry disaster of ‘22 and every day the devil is doing his work in the trenches to show me there are indeed levels to hell whenever I think I’ve reached the bottom.TIFU by ruining my sister’s wedding dress. S. I (16f) had a small gathering of 10 people over at my house last night while my sister was out the whole day. (She’s 24; foster kinship.) Someone brought alcohol, things got kind of out of control, and one of my highly intoxicated friends put on my sister’s wedding dress.Father Ruining His Son’s Life After Believing His Stepdaughter Lie TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life. r/tifu • 7 yr. ago • u/Valiran9. 6 awards. For a little background, I am the second Eldest of 4 and live with my partner, don’t drive, and have always been the partier of my family, I like to go on nights out and this is a well-known fact; However, due to a number of reasons, I haven't been able to go on a proper night out in a while the last time I tried I went with my younger sister ...101 votes, 27 comments. So, This happened exactly on this week (25/06/2017), also, pardon me for any English problems you might find, since English… TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life. r/tifu • 7 yr. ago • u/Valiran9. 6 awards. It’s gonna be 2-3 weeks of unemployment that I don’t have right now, so I’m looking at payment plans on smart TVs. I just feel awful like I ruined their Christmas and my moms nice gift. Thought I’d share the pain this holiday season. TL;DR I broke my parents tv and ruined their ChristmasTIFU by telling my kids “don’t do the crime if you can’t do the time” I have 4 boys. It is important for me that they understand that they are responsible for their actions. I always tell them their actions have consequences, good or bad, and they need to remember that especially when they make bad choices..